Men Aren’t Broken—They’re Silent | The Mental Health Truth No One Tells You | Ep. 114
What happens when war, childhood trauma, masculinity, and mental health collide?
In this powerful episode of A Healthy Point of View, host Sam Tejada sits down with James Harris — licensed mental health professional, Army veteran, foster care survivor, and founder of Men to Heal — for one of the most raw, necessary conversations we’ve ever had.
James opens up about:
- Growing up in foster care after losing his father at age five
- Being separated from his siblings in group homes
- Serving multiple tours in Iraq and Afghanistan
- Living with complex childhood trauma, PTSD, and survivor resilience
- Why traditional therapy often fails men, veterans, and first responders
- How men are conditioned to suffer in silence
- Why emotional pain shows up as anger, addiction, reckless behavior, and isolation
- The hidden mental health crisis among NFL players, athletes, and high performers
- Why asking “what’s the worst thing you’ve seen?” can be deeply damaging
- How to heal the root cause, not just the symptoms
- The role of faith, accountability, and culturally competent therapy
- Why men need tools—not labels—to heal
James also shares the inspiration behind:
- His movement Men to Heal
- His bestselling guided journal “Man, Just Express Yourself”
- His relationship-building board game Cheesy Dates
- Why men need safe spaces, not judgment
This episode is for:
✔️ Men
✔️ Veterans & first responders
✔️ Athletes & high performers
✔️ Healthcare professionals
✔️ Partners trying to understand the men they love
✔️ Anyone ready to break generational silence
If you’ve ever felt like you had to “man up” instead of opening up — this conversation is for you.
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